Before therapy, no one could have convinced me that talking with my wife about my affair was even possible, much less useful. I was adamant that talking about it was nowhere I wanted to go. I now know that it is the talking that allows for the healing. You have taught us to do that, to use our words, 'safely' and 'intentionally'.
Couples do most of the damage to their connection when each person is "hijacked" by the brain's survival imperative to "protect only this separate person". Our work involves helping you learn to co-create the safety and trust that your nervous system needs to process challenging content with your partner and still stay in connection.
Couples do most of the damage to their connection when each person is "hijacked" by the brain's survival imperative to "protect only this separate person". Our work involves helping you learn to co-create the safety and trust that your nervous system needs to process challenging content with your partner and still stay in connection.
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We are couples specialists. We guide couples from a place of humility as well as ongoing immersion in the evolving field of couples therapy. We have the skills, the experience and the passion to effectively guide you back into connection and aliveness with your partner. Why work with a specialist? We have been actively immersed in the field of couples work since 2001 when we began training in Imago Relationship Therapy and became certified.
I am passionate about my work with couples. I believe in the basic goodness of all humans, no exceptions. I am sincerely inspired and honored to sit with each couple as they build trust in themselves and each other, strengthening their love, commitment and true understanding of how 'to be with each other'.
Before therapy, no one could have convinced me that talking with my wife about my affair was even possible, much less useful. I was adamant that talking about it was nowhere I wanted to go. I now know that it is the talking that allows for the healing. You have taught us to do that, to use our words, 'safely' and 'intentionally'.
Being in a long term committed relationship is challenging for most of us. Two people are really two completely different worlds. And when these two world repeatedly collide, it can seem like the differences become "irreconcilable". This is a very common experience for couples and it's entirely workable.
If you are ready to work on your relationship and your partner isn't, then Couples Therapy for One might be for you. In fact, your partner might just follow. The important thing is you will experience personal grow that can itself bring about relationship changes. Becoming fully aware of your contribution and how to proceed skillfully will absolutely increase the chance your relationship will become the blessing for which you are hoping.
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