The most important investment (financial and otherwise) in your life is in the relationships with your spouse/partner and family. If you are married or in a deeply committed relationship, you have never been so vulnerable since you were a child. No one can give you such extreme pleasure or pain as your partner.
Amazing isn't it?! You do not pick your parents but you do pick your friends and spouse or partner. Invest in the maintenance of your relationship like you do your investments that are not as important as your family. Research suggests that the breakdown of the family creates the largest cause of pain in any society.
Amazing isn't it?! You do not pick your parents but you do pick your friends and spouse or partner. Invest in the maintenance of your relationship like you do your investments that are not as important as your family. Research suggests that the breakdown of the family creates the largest cause of pain in any society.
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Background information and counseling approach of James J. Sanders, LMFT, LPC, NCC, CCMHC. My approach to couples and individual counseling as well as the duration of counseling varies depending upon your wants as well as other clinical indications. In collaboration with you, I like to set concrete, attainable goals.
This book is written in the form of a personal letter to you. It gently expresses that the ability to do what you want, is already within you. In a clever manner James helps you figure out what you want and how to talk yourself into it. It is very positive, enjoyable and relaxing to read.
Understanding that self -esteem is the realization and recognition of the goodness and beauty that is already within us just by the very nature of being a human being.The ability to be enlightened is already within us. This book will help you see the greatness that is already within yourself along with an understanding of how to bring it out and shine.
Understanding that self -esteem is the realization and recognition of the goodness and beauty that is already within us just by the very nature of being a human being.The ability to be enlightened is already within us. This book will help you see the greatness that is already within yourself along with an understanding of how to bring it out and shine.
Beyond couples counseling or individual counseling, I recommend other resources to help you build better relationships. These book recommendations are helpful for those needing support with a difficult marriage, divorce recovery, trauma and healing, or other relationship issues. Realize and recognize the goodness and beauty that is already within you just by the very nature of being a human being.
Are you frustrated about focusing on what you do NOT want? We all have been there. That negative focus is based on regrets of the past and fears in the future with no space for the present here and now. So there we are stuck, stymied and stuttering in the here and now, unable to relax in the present moment.
Below are answers to common questions about my counseling practice. If you have further questions or are ready to make an appointment, please contact me here. My office hours are flexible. Call me on my cell phone for confidential easy access and appointment making. Cell (949) 636-7529 or e-mail me.
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Tiesha H.
Feb 23, 2021
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M. K.
Dec 06, 2016
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Dr. James Sanders has been a wonderful gift in my life. I was diagnosed with PTSD following an accident, and after a year of suffering, I found Dr. Sanders. Though it was difficult for me to share such deep emotions, he instantly made his office a safe space where I could say anything, even the very worst things. He doesn't make me feel judged or ashamed of myself, but is firm with me when I hold onto untruthful, negative beliefs about myself. He's used both CBT and EMDR to treat me.
I recommend seeing him if you've experienced any kind of trauma, betrayal, or heartbreak
I recommend seeing him if you've experienced any kind of trauma, betrayal, or heartbreak
