In 1979 the Funeral Home opened its doors in Wading River. Following in his grandfather's and father Fred's footsteps, Dean A. Alexander continue to provide service to the surrounding community. In 2011, Kenneth T. Rothwell joined Dean Alexander, as another generation carries on a time-honored tradition of personal attention and compassion in tending to the needs of families experiencing the loss of a loved one.
At the Alexander-Rothwell Funeral Home every funeral is unique and personal. Publicly praised for the dignity and sensitivity brought to each and every service, the staff is experienced in coordinating large military, law enforcement, and firematic services paying tribute to the joys, sacrifices, and contributions others have made on behalf of the greater community.
At the Alexander-Rothwell Funeral Home every funeral is unique and personal. Publicly praised for the dignity and sensitivity brought to each and every service, the staff is experienced in coordinating large military, law enforcement, and firematic services paying tribute to the joys, sacrifices, and contributions others have made on behalf of the greater community.
Services
Provide a peaceful and soothing environment where people gather to commemorate the life of a loved one. We believe the success of any business requires dedication and professionalism. In our business, in particular, it also requires a great deal of kindness, compassion and attention to detail. You'll find these qualities in each and every member of our staff.
When planning a service, you have many options available to you and we will do all that we can to provide a beautiful and respectful ceremony. No matter your choice, we can offer you a space to join with family and friends in grief, comfort and love. And above all, we will do our utmost to honor your loved one.
We have years of experience caring for families, from all walks of life. Each family comes to us because they know we are leaders in our profession, dedicated to excellence in service, and have the highest integrity. Ken has been there to assist families through some of the most tragic disasters of modern times.
When it comes to your final arrangements, shouldn't you make the decisions? The arrangements you make will reflect your exact wishes and desires. Pre-arranging your own service will help to ease the burden of your loved ones. It will also alleviate any questions, problems or differences, which can occur among family members.
The basic Military Funeral Honors (MFH) ceremony consists of the folding and presentation of the United States flag to the veterans' family and the playing of Taps. The ceremony is performed by a funeral honors detail consisting of at least two members of the Armed Forces. The Funeral Honors rendered to you or your veteran will be determined by the status of the veteran.
Reviews (5)
Stephanie Nichols
May 18, 2020
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I cannot express what wonderful care the director (Ken) provided for my uncle, who served in the Navy, and then went on to serve 35 years in the FDNY. They were incredibly professional and kind. The costs were affordable. The special service they provided was unparalleled. You should only trust Alexander Rothwell with the care of your loved one, particularly if they served in the military, navy, FDNY, NYPD, etc. The options they have to honor those who served are absolutely gorgeous.
Also note, that during the Co-Vid pandemic, they still have the resources to hold services in small groups. This
Also note, that during the Co-Vid pandemic, they still have the resources to hold services in small groups. This
Christopher McNulty
Dec 01, 2019
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Robert and Patty were wonderful in the handling of my Aunt's service. They guided and assisted my family every step of the way. They were empathetic and paid attention to every detail. They made a simple service very special. A service my Aunt would have appreciated. I would highly recommend Alexander Rothwell Funeral home.
John Loughren
Jun 28, 2019
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Peter Martinolich
Mar 11, 2017
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Walter Otto
Aug 25, 2014
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