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Real Life Solutions Counseling
Your relationship has fallen off track and you want to get it back on track. There has been cheating in your relationship and you are wondering if you should stay together or leave. Or you have decided to end your relationship and you want to do it with dignity and integrity. Perhaps you feel like anxiety/depression/fear are preventing you from living your best life.

You think you may have anger issues and you want to change that. You and your partner have trust and/or communication issues. There is hope. Call me today. These can be audio or video sessions. This is your choice. I am able to service the entire state of Florida this way. Laurie Shoats L.M.F.T. is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 30 years experience serving all of Florida via Telemental-health.
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My name is Laurie Shoats and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have been providing counseling in the state of Florida since 1990. In my 30 plus years of working with people, I have successfully assisted hundreds of clients in reaching their personal goals and my clients have been so responsive that they often refer their friends and family to my practice.
I use a range of approaches and interventions in my practice. The foundation of my philosophy is family systems theory, and I also utilize Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as well as Solution-Focused Approach to effectively and efficiently assist my clients. Again, I named my practice Real Life Solutions Counseling, Inc. with YOUR GOALS being the focus rather, than the standard clinical approaches being taught today.
One of my specialties is Infidelity Recovery. It does not matter where you are in the process. If you suspect infidelity, just found out about it or had it happen years ago, I can help you. My approach is more of an active process of recovery vs. simply letting time go by.

You know that time will pass, but you want your wounds to heal in a healthy way and not have those wounds cause future problems from unresolved issues or resentment related to the affair.Together, our goal of counseling is not to prolong the pain, but to shorten the time it takes to heal, reduce the hurt and get to forgiveness.
You know your relationship is worth fighting for and you know relationships have their ups and downs. You know your troubled relationship can no longer stay this way. You want things to get back on track as soon as possible. Relationships take work. Some require more effort than others to be as enjoyable as they can be.
Relationships can be romantic, familial, personal or work related and encompass any interactions you have with another person. Relationships can be very gratifying when they are healthy. Being respected by your coworkers can make the work day go more effortlessly. Coming into your house to a family running smoothly can be satisfying.
Reviews (9)
Maddie Mullis
Maddie Mullis
Dec 26, 2020
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Laurie has truly inspired me in the most indescribable ways. She listens attentively and she simply cares for your wellbeing. She has helped me to discover solutions in my life that has changed me for the better. She will allow you to grow with encouragement and focuses all of her attention to you. I can personally attest that Laurie is knowledgeable, supportive in all situations, dedicated and and passionate about her work to help others. I am looking forward to working with her throughout the future.
Jenae Laguna
Jenae Laguna
Oct 20, 2020
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Laurie is wonderful! She knows exactly what she is talking about and continues to help many people who come in her presence. I highly recommend her to anyone who is seeking guidance or just wanting to talk. (:
Pj Drolet
Pj Drolet
Aug 24, 2020
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Laurie helped me through a time when I was dealing with anxiety and feelings of guilt. I was comparing myself to others and this would get me down at times. With her help, I was able to identify and break these thought cycles. She taught me effective communication which has helped me professionally and in my relationships with friends and family. She suggested several great books that raised my self awareness. She is truly a professional and I have nothing but great things to say about her. The skills that I gained from her are things that I will continue to practice for the rest of my life. I
Dawn Castillo
Dawn Castillo
Nov 03, 2018
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I have known Laurie for several years both personally and professionally and know her to be extremely knowledgeable in her field. She is continuously reading ahead for many new and successful approaches in her practice. She also has the ability to get to the core of any issue quickly and helps to guide you through the process with an outstanding professionalism and compassion. As a friend and a colleague I would highly recommend her services.
Michelle Page
Michelle Page
Sep 17, 2018
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It can be stressful when you're trying to find a therapist. It's hard to know who's on top of things and truly knows what they're doing. I have to say that Laurie Shoats is a wonderful therapist. She really knows how to listen! She effectively helps her clients deal and progress through difficult sitations. Laurie is supportive, caring, and very easy to talk to. I highly recommend her!
Barbara Gonzalez
Barbara Gonzalez
Sep 02, 2018
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I have known Laurie for years on a personal basis and business one.
She's one of the most compassionate, caring, understanding , knowledgeable and helpful person I've met. She truly loves her job and cares for her patients.
Brian Seik
Brian Seik
Jul 16, 2018
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I have known Laurie for a long time, she is loyal, compassionate, knowledgeable and truly dedicated in her field. She is easy to talk to, she always goes above and beyond for her clients and the people she knows. I would have no problem sending friends and family to her, she's amazing!
Brad Smith
Brad Smith
Jun 17, 2018
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My wife and I had been having marital problems for several years. A friend recommended that we go see Laurie at real life solutions counselling.
My wife suggested we try counselling even though initially I was against it.
Despite my initial reluctance , I have to admit the time and effort proved to be very beneficial.
As a guy it is not easy for me to talk about my feelings or personal things.
But after spending a few minutes with Laurie, I felt very comfortable with her.
She was able to pinpoint exactly what was going on with us by the end of the first appointment.
Laurie sent us home each
Bev Baran
Bev Baran
Jul 22, 2015
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Ms. Shoats is professional in her approach but also very caring. She will give you the tools you need to use in your therapy rather than providing all the answers. These tools will help you deal with many of life's situations even after your therapy appointments have ceased. She can help you to understand yourself and others better.