Transform your relationship as you explore fresh, new possibilities. If you are ready to be a happier couple, this is an amazing opportunity to see incredible changes quickly. Experience a deeper connection amongst a safe, supportive community of other couples having similar experiences. Rediscover your passion, reawaken your dreams, and recommit to the love between you.
Imagine waking up each day with harmony, passion, and a deep connection between you and your partner. Envision the warmth and love you will feel when you are thriving in your relationship and not.
Imagine waking up each day with harmony, passion, and a deep connection between you and your partner. Envision the warmth and love you will feel when you are thriving in your relationship and not.
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I find tremendous joy witnessing the magic that unfolds when couples truly reconnect. After all, we come into the world connected. It's our natural state. As we go through life, our connection to others is often disrupted, causing us to suffer in isolation. I believe it is only through re-connection that we restore to our original wholeness.
I help couples rediscover joy of being together, deepen communication and resolve conflict. I believe it is only through re-connection that we restore to our original wholeness. That is why I love to facilitate the transformation that takes place when people finally meet each other in their essence.
Do you want to heal, reconnect, feel hope again, and bring back the happiness and joy you once experienced with each other? If yes, I definitely recommend my Private One-Day and Two-Day Intensive For Couples. During our time together, you will experience quick results, a deeper, richer connection with each other, and restored confidence in your relationship.
For the past 25 years, I have had the honor and privilege of preparing thousands of couples for marriage, and committed long-term relationships. Research shows that couples that take part in premarital counseling have 30% less divorce occurrences than couples who do not.
For this reason, I have developed a four-session package for you and your partner to address the essential topics and sharpen up your communication skills with each other before finalizing your commitment to each other.
For this reason, I have developed a four-session package for you and your partner to address the essential topics and sharpen up your communication skills with each other before finalizing your commitment to each other.
For some individuals and couples, weekly on-going sessions work best. Scheduled weekly, ongoing sessions allow you to learn to talk about difficult things in a safe, connected setting while being supported and guided through the difficulties in the relationship as they come up week to week. This regular contact allows time for couples to try out and practice new tools and skills and get help in fine-tuning glitches along the way.
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Larissa C.
Oct 28, 2019
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Yesterday, my boyfriend and I went to Mary Kay's workshop and I have to say I am so happy we did. Though we were both so nervous going into it, we are so happy at how this workshop filled both our toolboxes to the brim with new and exciting techniques on how we can communicate with each other, both verbally and
Jared I.
Sep 23, 2019
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We went to Mary Kay's one-day pre-marital workshop. We were worried we may be the only couple not officially engaged, but it was a good mix of couples thinking about getting engaged, engaged, and even married.
Mary Kay presented different ways to approach relationships and conflict, which gave a really good big-picture view of how to maintain a long term relationship.
Most of the workshop was dedicated to a communication exercise that at first felt a little odd, but once we started practicing it on our own, we grew to really like it.
At the end of the day you get a certificate and workbook
Mary Kay presented different ways to approach relationships and conflict, which gave a really good big-picture view of how to maintain a long term relationship.
Most of the workshop was dedicated to a communication exercise that at first felt a little odd, but once we started practicing it on our own, we grew to really like it.
At the end of the day you get a certificate and workbook
Pankaj Raval
Jun 17, 2019
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M. P.
Jan 22, 2019
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I cannot say enough good things about Mary Kay Cocharo. Having attended a workshop of hers and done some sessions as well, she truly is the best of the best. She excels at helping people who communicate differently find an effective way of talking about how they feel. Mary Kay once said that unlike traditional therapy that address the immediate problem only (the tip of the iceberg) - she goes deeper with what's underneath the surface - to really help address what's the root cause of any issues. She is amazing!
Hedy & Yumi Schleifer
Dec 04, 2018
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Mary Kay Cocharo is a Couples Therapist par excellence. She walks her talk, and actually “lives” in her own relationship the Encounter-Centered Couples Therapy model that she teaches the couples who come to seek her guidance.
Mary Kay is a seasoned, mature, skilled and experienced therapist. Being welcomed by her for a therapy journey is not only highly worthwhile, it is a real treat!
Mary Kay is a seasoned, mature, skilled and experienced therapist. Being welcomed by her for a therapy journey is not only highly worthwhile, it is a real treat!
Lisa Pena
Oct 19, 2018
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Mary Kay is an exceptional and amazing therapist! She's excellent with pinpointing the issues, providing direction and addressing questions that make for a calm and loving discussion. Her advise and long standing experience are priceless! I simply cannot put a price on the invaluable advise we've received and when anything in life comes our way, we know we have one of the greatest resources with Mary Kay.
Erin D.
Aug 30, 2018
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Last weekend, my husband and I had the opportunity to attend Mary Kay Cocharo's Over the Bridge Retreat for Couples. I would like to share a little bit about our experience in the hopes that what I have to say will motivate another couple to work with Mary Kay in some capacity to bring healing to their relationship.
My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We have three beautiful children, ages 5, 9 and 12. We have practiced attachment parenting with all of our children and it is safe to say we were both 100% committed to raising our children and putting all of our love into ensuring
My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We have three beautiful children, ages 5, 9 and 12. We have practiced attachment parenting with all of our children and it is safe to say we were both 100% committed to raising our children and putting all of our love into ensuring
Elaine L.
Aug 29, 2018
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Having attended a couples retreat organized and facilitated by Mary Kay, we are still on a high! We were introduced to Imago therapy and communication tools that we can use for the rest of our lives. The intellect, professionalism and compassion displayed by Mary Kay and her incredibly experienced and talented colleagues established a safe and caring environment for all to do amazing work. I highly recommend this retreat to any couple that wants to enrich their relationship and move forward with greater love and serenity.
Sarah Christian
Jun 17, 2018
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Mary Kay is phenomenal. We attended her "Start Right, Stay Connected" workshop as well as private sessions with her in preparation for our marriage. She is incredibly approachable, tactful and kind. She finds a way to handle the "tough" issues with ease and in a way that was productive and communicative. Mary Kay is a gem and I would highly recommend her to anyone thinking about marriage, engaged to be married or in a marriage! Thank you Mary Kay!
Taylor Martin
May 12, 2018
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The “Start Right, Stay Connected” workshop was fun, engaging, and dynamic. Mary Kay Cocharo is incredibly knowledgeable (as well as entertaining) and led with compassion. The workshop was well-paced and honestly, it was a fun way to reconnect and focus on our relationship rather than the wedding. We got concrete tools for moving forward and growth.
Johana L.
Feb 27, 2018
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Mary Kay is truly and amazing thinker, helper, and guide. Her methods are endlessly insightful, and she's helped us find clarity and communicate more effectively than we'd ever thought we could. She's incredible.
We also attended a 3-day couples retreat, which was wonderful: educational, informative, and fun - all in an idyllic relaxing setting. The experience has since become invaluable to our relationship.
We feel lucky to have found Mary Kay - she couldn't be better at what she does. We whole-heartedly recommend her.
We also attended a 3-day couples retreat, which was wonderful: educational, informative, and fun - all in an idyllic relaxing setting. The experience has since become invaluable to our relationship.
We feel lucky to have found Mary Kay - she couldn't be better at what she does. We whole-heartedly recommend her.
Danny M.
Jan 25, 2018
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We attended the Start Right, Stay Connected workshop with Mary Kay. I would absolutely recommend this workshop to other couples in any stage of their relationship. I left feeling closer to my partner and more confident in our relationship because of the tools we learned to overcome adversity in the future :)
Shannon M.
Jan 24, 2018
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J. X.
Jan 23, 2018
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Mel Y.
Jan 23, 2018
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"This workshop provides a safe space where a couple can express their feelings, without fear of repercussions. Once these feelings are in the open, the truth is exposed, and the healing can begin. I suggest that every couple (engaged, married or seriously dating) attend this workshop. You will walk away a stronger couple--promise!" --M.Y.
Tree G.
Jan 23, 2018
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Peggy L.
Jan 21, 2018
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I had the privilege of assisting Mary Kay Cocharo at her Couples Workshop this past weekend. It was beautiful to see so many couples opening up, communicating and deepening their connection. The evaluations after the workshop were stellar! Without exception, each couple expressed deep gratitude for her fun, informative, and transformational style of presentation. Every couple, whether dating, engaged or married should attend one of Mary Kay's workshops!
Heather M.
Sep 18, 2017
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Kevin M.
May 23, 2017
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My fiance and I took Mary Kay's one day intensive course for couples. I've gone to a lot of communications seminars but this is as good as it gets. We were introduced to practical new tools that we have continued to use. I learned more about my fiance and she about me thanks to the Imago tools. And Mary Kay is a very entertaining facilitator who keeps one's attention. The balance between presenting and us doing exercises was excellent. I feel like I have received tools that I didn't expect. I thought I had pretty good communication skills, but this took me to a whole
Doug Wilson
Apr 29, 2017
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Olivia Chung
Jul 30, 2016
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My fiance and I attended Mary Kay's workshop this past weekend and absorbed everything like a sponge. She walked us through the science behind relationships and taught us so much about the importance to creating an environment for open communication. She was so lovely and her energy is infectious. She true believes in the power of the couple. She provided a workbook with great information to take home and practice. I appreciated attending this workshop with other couples as we could all relate to each other in certain aspects of our relationships with our significant other, it was nice to know
Melvin P.
Aug 31, 2015
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I also attended the workshop on August 26. The previous reviewer, Jennifer B., is correct and God was not mentioned once in the course of an eight hour workshop. That is apparently very important to an atheist (her fiance). but I found this to be somewhat anomalous since the workshop was conducted in a "Spirituality Center" as part of the Saint Monica's complex of buildings, with Christian iconography displayed prominently throughout the structure. The workshop is also recommended by Saint Monica's as part of pre-marriage preparation.
And religion, including Christianity
And religion, including Christianity
Jennifer Saxton
Aug 30, 2015
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Found MK on Yelp while searching for non-religious premarital counseling workshops. Fiancé and I attended the 8 hour Imago "Start Right, Stay Connected" workshop yesterday in Santa Monica with 10 other couples (cost $300). While it was held in a church building, I literally don't think God was mentioned once, which was important for atheist fiancé… to agree to attend. MK and her 3 therapy interns were exceptional and provided a really safe and caring environment to learn communication styles to work through issues. We were one of two couples who volunteered to practice in front
Jamie E.
Apr 30, 2015
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Mary Kay's work with couples is absolutely transformative. In my own relationship, during the short time of this Over the Bridge workshop, my husband and I were able to discover, share, and repair old wounds to create a deeper sense of connection. This workshop is for any couple, old or new , happy, or struggling.
Ryan W.
Apr 30, 2015
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Whether you're a new couple, or seasoned veterans, these workshops help open the lines of communication and plants the seeds for healing to occur. The thoughtful and present guidance of Mary Kay creates a safe environment for the exploration of vulnerabilities. I feel more connected and conscious in my relationship and am walking away with valuable skills to continue deepening my relationship.
Tweetie N.
Feb 17, 2015
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Start Right, Stay Connected is a great workshop that I would recommend to any couple looking for a non-religious based workshop that focuses on communication and mutual understanding.
This is a group-based workshop, but much of the work is done one-on-one as a couple. You benefit from a group setting through volunteered shared experiences and general feedback, but don't have to worry about sharing personal details or anything else. That was the big benefit of the workshop, being able to see commonalities with other couples while still being able to focus on ourselves as a couple.
This is a group-based workshop, but much of the work is done one-on-one as a couple. You benefit from a group setting through volunteered shared experiences and general feedback, but don't have to worry about sharing personal details or anything else. That was the big benefit of the workshop, being able to see commonalities with other couples while still being able to focus on ourselves as a couple.
