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Alexander Mediation Group
Alexander Mediation Group is a professional divorce mediation firm serving couples and families throughout Hamptons and New York. Together with the couple, the mediator addresses financial, emotional and legal issues of the divorce. As trained family law attorneys, we have both background and knowledge necessary to navigate the complex world of divorce.

As professionals trained and certified in an experiential, therapeutic modality, by the Focusing International Institute, we approach our process and clients with respect for their individuality and humanity. While working towards legal solutions, we also address practical matters to support clients in advancing through the critical transition of divorce.
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Rachel Alexander, Esq., CFP* is a Professional Divorce Mediator and Family Law Attorney, admitted to the Bar of New York, New Jersey and Maryland, With Thousands of Hours of Experience. Rachel's extensive training in mediation and related disciplines, as well as her own experience of divorce, inspires her compassion for others.
The answer varies for every couple. Mediation provides couples an opportunity to address issues that have arisen during the course of their marriage and to determine new ways to manage conflict. This allows them to consciously shape the future of their communication, relationship and family.

Whether couples determine to divorce or continue to work on their marriages, mediation enables participants to identify, express, and address their needs in an open and respectful environment.Compared to the litigation process, the mediation process saves most couples money, and a sizable amount at that.
Contrary to adversarial divorce, mediation provides couples with the opportunity to process their thoughts and feelings on the various issues of their separation. You come away feeling validated and intact (not defeated or devastated, as is often the result of an adversarial divorce).

With a mediator's help, you build an agreement, determining such things as parenting time, child support, equitable distribution, spousal maintenance and any other issues you deem important.You make the decisions; your mediator provides their expertise, a framework of the governing law, and keeps the conversations productive and focused.
The NJ Center for Mediation Solutions seeks to assist separating and divorcing couples to work together in developing their own marital agreement, leading to a uncontested divorce. At the NJ Center for Mediation Solutions, we believe divorce mediation is a kinder and fairer way to divorce. It is faster, more affordable, and completely confidential.
I attended Rachel's support group on Zoom for the first time last night. I did not know what to expect and was a little nervous especially given the private nature of the topic. She made me feel welcomed and comfortable right away. She had others share before getting to me which allowed me to get a sense of the meeting before joining in.
Reviews (8)
E. S.
E. S.
Jun 07, 2021
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Rachel is warm, caring, and knowledgeable. It’s comforting to have a support group to be able to vent, share experiences, and get valuable information during a very difficult time.
Stephanie Harris
Stephanie Harris
Oct 01, 2020
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Rachel is not only smart but compassionate and creative in her thinking Highly recommend.
Yvonne S.
Yvonne S.
Jul 27, 2019
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Rachel Alexander is a skillful mediator and attorney who is an absolute joy to work with. While helping my husband and I navigate our way through preparation of a complicated postnuptial agreement Rachel always remained calm and encouraging even during heated discussions - she prevailed as the voice of reason. She immediately understood each of our needs and the circumstances which necessitated the postnuptial and deftly diffused a number of highly emotional sticking points with her creativity and problem-solving skills. Her level of organization is one I aspire to. I highly recommend Rachel to
Nick Zemlachenko
Nick Zemlachenko
Jun 12, 2016
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I have known Alexander Mediation Group for about 4 years and have referred clients to Rachel Alexander. Rachel's has an incredible ability to create a sense of trust with her clients that is only surpassed by her incredible work ethic. Her ability to accurately set expectations greatly contributes to her successful track record.
Jo B.
Jo B.
Jun 02, 2016
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I have known Rachel Alexander for 30 years. She is exceptionally intelligent with a "second sense" for relating to people in a way that is healing. Her creation of Alexander Mediation Group is the natural culmination of her excellent training in both social work and family law. I have referred (and continue to refer) people to her when they need efficient, competent and loving guidance through the process of divorce. Her recent training in Focus Oriented Therapy further enhances the value of the experience of working with the Alexander Mediation Group to navigate the divorce process.
Janice Wolk
Janice Wolk
Dec 27, 2015
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Rachel is thoroughly terrific lawyer. She goes through all necessary details and leaves no stone unturned. Rachel helped me with a difficult situation and got me though with flying colors. I highly recommend Rachel- she is a lawyer of great compassion and integrity.
Chris Haugen
Chris Haugen
Nov 30, 2015
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I've known Rachel for years and have seen firsthand that she brings a total dedication and genuine concern for her clients. She is a tireless student of mediation and conflict resolution. I can sincerely recommend her to any and all that are even contemplating divorce.
Jeanne Rothenberg
Jeanne Rothenberg
Oct 31, 2015
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I have found Rachel’s professional advice invaluable. She has a sense of how to work with people on sensitive issues which has proven to create great outcomes each and every time. She is knowledgeable, insightful and articulate. I highly recommend her.