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Alesso Funeral Home
Alesso Funeral Home is dedicated to providing services to the families of Lodi with care and compassion. We serve every family in our community with great pride. We are able to offer a wide range of services to meet your families needs and customs. We will listen to you and your wishes to help plan a celebration consistent with your expectations.

We will take the time to plan every detail and help to relieve the burden on your family during your time of loss. Our website contains information about our services and links to resources to help you get through this tough time. Please give us a call at 973-471-4000 to see how we can help. Abbreviated services at places of worship and cemeteries will continue at the discretion of the individual location.
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We will assist your family in planning a funeral and choosing the options that suit your families needs and your loved ones wishes. We are able to assist you in holding services in a wide variety of areas. From our chapel, to your church or at the cemetery we are able to prepare a meaningful service to honor your loved one.
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Most of us are not prepared to plan and carry out a funeral ceremony for someone we love. And so much of the information available on this critically important subject fails to focus on what is most important: having a personalized, meaningful funeral that helps families and friends begin the healing process of mourning after the death of someone we love.
Reviews (5)
Lauren M.
Lauren M.
Jul 20, 2020
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Alesso's funeral home has always been in my family for decades. They did a beautiful job for my Mom yesterday and they were always a pleasure to provide the best service to lay a loved one to rest.
I am so grateful for all they have done to make this a loving, smooth transition for my Mom's eternal peace.
God Bless you!!
❤🌹
Maria S.
Maria S.
Feb 02, 2019
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I have to agree with the other reviews. Saying goodbye to a friend , a loved one is one of the most painful things one has to do. To have these cold hearted people standing over you, constantly telling you what time it is.... I have no words. Heartless.... There is no excuse. These people are in the wrong business.
Damaris Rivera
Damaris Rivera
Dec 31, 2018
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Although the Funeral Home was clean the employee's (specifically one lady, who I did not get her name, short/white/long blonde hair) was very non empathetic to the families needs. We had 2 viewings this past week for my young cousin and at the first one she yelled at family members to leave for first break not caring how sad people were. Then at the second viewing, when it was time to say "goodbye" to my cousin for the last time she was yelling and stomping her feet to get family/friends out by "9:00pm". She was rude to my aunt (my cousins mother) and did not care that this was our last time saying
Dale I.
Dale I.
Oct 28, 2018
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The staff running this Funeral Home are rude, uncaring, unsympathetic and treat this like a job. This is one of those professions that it takes a certain personality to be in. The women overseeing this funeral home clearly missed her calling. This is NOT it. I've never been to a funeral home that there wasn't someone opening the door for you and directing you. Not here. It was over the time and she clearly didn't have the know how or sensitivity to get so many people out. Only concerned about cleaning up. You only have one chance to get this right. Missed the boat.
Alyssa S.
Alyssa S.
Apr 17, 2018
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Horrible!!! Jimmy Alesso needs to retire and sell this place. He's clearly a miserable human being. He makes it very clear he doesn't want to be working anymore and has little to no patience with his customers. He was cursing at the church that my great uncles funeral was held, rolling his eyes, addressed my family as "you people...". The list goes on. During a time when a family is grieving you'd think the funeral director would be even the least bit consoling to the family. Nope, not here.